

He was so frightened that he couldn’t think of anything to say and ran out of the barbershop. “The barber told me that he didn’t cut hair for sissies,” Middleton said.

One day, he became angry and scared when he went to a Black barbershop. “I had already come out to my family and friends,” Middleton said, “but I felt, to be safe, I had to go back into the closet when I went to a the barbershop.” Subtle or overt anti-queer slur often make you feel unsafe if you’re queer and Black in a Black barbershop. “When they were freed, owning a barbershop was one of the few businesses they could run,” he added.īut, heteronormity rules in many Black barbershops.
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When Black people were enslaved, one of the few things they could learn was how to cut hair, Middleton said. “Barbershops are critically important to the Black community,” Middleton said, “I want to honor them.” He, like other Black queer men, ran up against hyper-masculinity, when he went to a barbershop. “It felt unnatural to try to be masculine in the way I was expected to be,” he added. “I wasn’t yet labeled as ‘gay,’ but I felt like I didn’t fit in,” he told the Blade. Middleton, born in Harlem in New York City, knew as a little boy that he was different. Middleton, a talented, 35-year-old, Black, gay filmmaker, uses his art to tell stories. MOWFF, in a hybrid in person and streaming format, will feature films, panel discussions, theatrical performances and the first-ever VR who haven’t talked about it.” (The film will be shown at MOWFF as part of the Student and Emerging Filmmaker Competitions.)ĭerrick L. In April, the couple claimed they were homeless due to “homophobic parents” and made a public plea for help. Ng, who is the daughter of Chan and Chinese actress Elaine Ng Yi Lei, came out as a lesbian in October and revealed she was in a relationship with Autumn. ♡♡♡ Happiest day of my life ♡♡♡ #lovewins #gaymarriage #lgbtq #fightforwhatsright #love #iloveyou #teamloveĪ post shared by andi autumn on at 8:19pm PST And guess what? WE ALL DO! ♡ THE NEW GENERATION DESERVES MORE! Feel the love we have to share, we can all get there. Now that its gone, this new feeling has taken over and I now know I deserve just as much as the world has to offer. My whole life I thought I was toxic, she made me realize I was surrounded by negativity. I’m no longer scared, I no longer have to find coping mechanisms to get through an hour of the day. has given me the gift of being my true self and it’s so hard to explain the change I feel. We will power on with positivity so that other voices who are silenced can finally embrace their inner truths. With this love, comes unbelievable strength and confidence to ignore our own pain, shut down our ego, and know exactly who we are and what we want. ♡ Back to Hong Kong as Wife & Wife ♡ Love has opened our eyes, opened our minds, and our hearts can feel whole.
